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Posted by Deirdre on 04/30

Jean. You wonder why so many of your ideas are so poorly received? I'll try to lay it out for you. 1) Ignorance is only excusable for a little while. You've been here for 100 hours already? That's more time than I've put in on my current pkiller, and he's L38. And believe it or not, I've spent a lot more time hanging out and talking than I have getting xp. The point is, you've been here long enough that you should know better than to suggest some of your ideas. 2) You refuse to listen to other people except when they support you. You say that people have stopped replying to your posts (I'm not sure why I haven't yet), well, it's probably because they know you're not going to listen. Protest all you like, but I bet there's no one here who actually thinks you've seriously listened to a word they've said. I mean, hell, you've gone so far as to disobey an order from the Head Admin. Now that's -seriously- not listening. 3) Your holier-than-thou attitude. You're better than all of us. You're more moral, you're a better socializer, you're better at helping newbies than us (than the GM of the NPH, even!), and I bet if we got into it, you'd tell us your breath is fresher, too. You're a visionary! Your ideas are waaaaay better than anyone else's just 'cuz that's the kind of guy you are. We're all too hypocritical and entrenched in our ways to give your wonderful, prophetic ideas a chance. And yes, that was sarcasm. You may be seeing the worst in the citizens of Legend right now, but that's because you're bringing the worst out in us. And I know you'll probably argue that I'm just saying that because I'm secretly terrified of your powerful sexual mojo, but you know, at this point, I don't care what you think anymore. And for that, you only have yourself to blame. Deirdre.

From: Stradivari Wednesday, April 28, 04:19PM

I agree with Deirdre. Your ideas are being poorly received and you are seeing the worst side of many Legendites, because you are bringing it out of us. Stradivari

From: Jean Friday, April 30, 02:08AM

(part 1 of 2) Deirdre writes: Certainly. What youve got to prove is that im ignorant. nods. Or so youd like to think. Im currently level 6 and have no plans of levelling up until a fwe things happen- first, theres have to be nothing left to respond to on here for me or that i was denied access from posting. The denying access thing might happen soon; but then, id take my grievance to channels- maybe even get my very own mailing list going if enough interest is shown. but suppose all that doesnt work out- -then- i might xp some more. Ill still think that it takes too long to get to 50- even the quoted minimum of 50 hours pure xping to get to 50 seems too much- perhaps if there were really long quests, then itd be ok, but its just killing for the sake of levelling that makes me feel that its such a bore. <2) You refuse to listen to other people except when they support you.> if that were the case, i would have replied to almost no posts at all, considering the fact that almost all of you here dont support me :-p. that was actually an outdated message- at that point in time, people really -had- stopped- but then other people came on monday and things resumed. <(I'm not sure why I haven't yet), well, it's probably because they know you're not going to listen. Protest all you like, but I bet there's no one here who actually thinks you've seriously listened to a word they've said. I mean, hell, you've gone so far as to disobey an order from the Head Admin. Now that's -seriously- not listening.> Sigh. Like others on here, you confuse not agreeing and, in the case of Sandra, not obeying an order with not listening. Not only did i hear what she said, but i responded to her post, itemizing the reasons why i thought the freedom to quote in my posts was so important that id risk being banned for it. <3) Your holier-than-thou attitude. You're better than all of us. You're more moral> he he he :-). well, i may make a few good friends, but clearly im not good at socializing with the general population as a whole.. or atleast until now :-p. maybe im wrong, but by the time you finish reading this post, i might have made one (still sceptical, im sure :-p) friend.. maybe not, i dont know you well enough, but heres to hoping. I never said this at all. the truth of the matter is, almost -anyone- is better at helping newbies then i am- i mean, think about it, i -am- still pretty much a newbie :-p. Youd be closer to the mark if you said that I think i -would- help newbies more if i could. Note, however, that i only named one person that didnt seem to be very keen on helping newbies (Cyanide). In the case of the GM of the NPH, i said that -if- he didnt help newbies that much then he wouldnt be a good GM of the NPH. I was then told that he indeed -does- help quite a bit, whereupon i said that my remark was really more of a question designed to get him to tell me if, indeed, he didnt help newbies much for real or if that was just a misunderstanding on my part. There are also a fair amount of great newbie helpers that, in my wish to bring to light the fact that there seemed to be a fair amount of people who -didnt- help out newbies much, i didnt mention. This was probably a mistake on my part. In any case, in trying to make up for it now, Id like to say that Sibwarra and Mice has been most helpful to me.. There were many others, including people, like Slayer, that -would- have helped me gain xp, only i was too busy talking :-p.

From: Jean Friday, April 30, 02:08AM

(part 2 of 2) Deirdre writes: Oh god, this makes me laugh :-p. Let me just say that i would -definitely- not say that :-p. lol :-). lol :-). god, youve got a good sense of humour :-). i love hearing these types of things, because besides being a great laugh :-), it can show where i perhaps havent been clear enough- as to my ideas; i dont know how much better they are then the average joes, but i think most people think that their ideas are better then their next door neighbours- otherwise, theyd adobt the ideas of their neighbours :-). As for everyone being too hypocritical and entrenched.. chuckle :-).. i dont believe that either. I know, i wrote a -post- titled hypocrisy and avoidance, but it was written at a time when it seemed everyone was just going to ignore me and it was posted at a time when it seemed i was going to be forever ostracized simply because i quote (that ones coming close to be true it seems :-p). I havent been keeping score on how my views sway one way and the other, but i -definitely- dont feel as adamant about all that as i did before- people like you make me feel that, indeed, there -are- people who are intelligent enough to realize that theres more to life then the fact that i quote :-p. As for the entrenched bit, again, i thought so, and maybe i still think so- it depends on how im dealt with, really- whether ill be denied access to this board just because of my quotes or not, say. As for my prophetic ideas, well, you never know, lol :-). more then anything, i love playing with words, ideas and people in a sense (oh great, now unfrozens going to start up with his youre too immature thing im sure :-p). I just want to have fun like everyone else is what i mean- i -love- words and have been playing with them since i was quite young- first primarily just reading them and then, as i grew older, writing them quite a bit. I like to think im a good writer with good ideas; i hope that one day youll agree with me. :-). I dont think thats the case- i think its more like a put a fair amount of pressure on Legend for change and got the aches and groans that comes when pressure is ever applied. Make no mistake, dont think this was easy for me. In doing this, after the initial good will associated with oh, hes just a newbie, hell settle soon, i was soon bombarded with complaints left and right, along with the threat of losing legend completely. whatever happens though, its worth all my suffering and more just to see someone of your intelligence write to me. chuckle :-). i know where the terrified idea is coming from, he :-), but i dont know what mojo means.. only time i heard of the word is in Mojo, bad guy in the marvel universe and noted adversary of the x-men :-p. Ok, this is where is one of the first times im going to level with an opponent of mine- ive made some mistakes, ok? Im not perfect. heres to hoping that this post has cleared up atleast some of them. and heres to hoping that future posts of mine will clear up the rest.

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